So many people feel dissatisfied or unhappy with their lives because they think that they have very little or no control over their lives. When you feel that you have no control, you stop doing things that could enhance your situation, you begin feeling helplessness and you don’t feel encouraged to do the activities you used to enjoy. If you are the one who feels trapped and helplessness, just because you have this feeling of having no available options or no control in situation, you don’t have to feel this way. Nobody knows what you are going through right now, but one thing is for sure that you can break this pattern, and enhance your number of total available responses in any given situation, and so increase your feeling of control.
In a way to feel in control you have to be aware of your power and take responsibility. Remember that you are the one who can change the things in your life that you are not happy about. Actually, you have full control of your life. Avoid blaming the world and others for the bad things that happen to you. Just use this power that you have and take the lead, begin making choices that will bring happiness into your life. You cannot please everyone and if you live your life trying hard to please others, you will feel disappointed, alienated and trapped. You can’t let other people’s views dictate how you will live your life.
Your perspective decides the way you see the world, so make sure you are embracing an inspirational standpoint in life. Your mind has the power to see towards the life as negatively and it also has the power to make you feel inspired to do better. Happiness starts in your thought process. Changing your perspective, will change your world. Remember that in a way to control your life, you must be in control of your thoughts. Be aware of your own thoughts, replace toxic and negative thoughts for positive affirmations and you will notice both your life and mindset changing and improving.
Learn to respect and love yourself. Spend some time to know yourself and to do what makes you happy. Everything that happens in your life, all the hurdles that you have to overcome and all the setbacks that you may have in your path, are part of your journey to success. Your ego always tries to tell you to continue feeling passive and trapped, but a major part of having self respect is being able to be brave to come out of your comfort zone. Always remember that you are free to live your life to its fullest and deserve to be happy and jollity.